Wow it has been a while since I last posted but between the dance studio, My boys, an I have to admit farming on facebook, I dont really have much time to spare.
It has been a very long week and since only my good friends read my blog, I thought I would write about it and try to get it off my mind.
About September Rich started feeling numb in his left leg. Not sure what it was maybe thinking it was a pinched nerve and it not hurting, he decided he would wait til the new year and get it checked.(Because we have crappy insurance). Well The day before Thanksgiving his numbness started in his right leg and was a little more uncomfortable. Rich decided that he would go get it checked. The Dr. said that he wouldnt worry about it and to come back if it gets worse. By Thanksgiving Day Rich was numb from his chest down and very uncomfortable. Monday he went back to the Dr. The idiotic Dr. Responded by saying what do you want me to do? He took xrays and blood work and the Xrays came back with no pinched nerve. While in the Dr.s office my brother in-law called rich and said he could get into a specialist and he immediately left. At the Specialists office he took anothe set of x-rays and said he didnt have a pinched nerve but that this was not normal. The specialist ordered up MRI's, more blood work and another visit on wednesday. After 5 hours of MRI's, lots of blood work and a whole day of dr. visits, The Specialist told us that Rich either had cancer on the spinal chord or MS. The next day we met with the Neuroligist and she comfirmed that Rich has Aggressive MS. We have spent the whole week at different appt's and tests and are trying to get over the initial shock that this has happened to our family.
It's kind of weird that Bad thing happen to other people but you think that will never happen to you! We still don't know what is going to happen or how fast but we know things will more than likely be different.
I Have been really thinking about this all and the one thing that comforts me is that I know my Heavenly father loves me and that Families are Forever.
We have had a very blessed life with very few trials, an amazing marriage and two beautiful children. We have had the opportunity to do more things in our 11 yrs of marriage then most people do their whole lives. I know if anyone can fight against this disease, Rich can. I know it is not cureable but we are not going to let it take over our lives. I am still looking forward to growing OLD with my Prince Charming.
Rich is now on steroids for 5 days through and IV. He will have to give himself shots about every day for the rest of his life. We are praying he gets some feeling back in his body so that he can be comfortable and work and live like normal again.
I am so grateful for our family and friends who have helped us out so much this week!
Don't take anything for Granted because life can change so fast!
3 weeks ago
16 comments:
Misty, I am SO sad to hear this! Chad and I love your family so much and will definitely keep you in our prayers. You are really taking all this like a champ. Keep us posted!
You and Rich are so strong, in mind, body and spirit. We are praying for you always and hope you will find strength and comfort in the friends and family that love and support you. Don't hesitate to lean on us if you need to. We love you guys.
Misty, thanks for posting this..I have been thinking about you hoping that everything is ok. I'm not much help living in Iowa...but if you ever need anything or someone to talk to I will be there for you. That has got to be so hard, one day life is perfect, the next you are dealing with a scary disease...good luck and Happy Holidays! I'll keep you in my prayers!
Wow Misty, I can't even imagine how scary this is. You two are great people and Rich is lucky to have you by his side as he fights this. I will be thinking of you guys!
Misty, I am so sorry to hear about this. What a challenge for your little family. We will keep you in our prayers.
I am so sorry to hear about Rich. I know the Lord will be with you through this and you will be stronger because of it. We will keep you in our prayers and we think the world of you guys! We are here for you, too.
Lots of Love,
Moriya
I'm so sorry Misty. Please let us know if we can help out in any way. Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers and we will keep praying for you.
Hey, little sis....just wanted you to know how much I love you and your fam. I'm so sorry that you guys are going through this. You couldn't have said it better....you both have been so blessed all these years. It is such a blessing to know that families can be together forever! I hope you and Rich know that there are so many of us that love and support you. We will be there in any way possible. You are always in our prayers. Love you, sis.
I'm glad you posted this, too, Misty. What a shock. I hope in the coming weeks and months you are able to get some clarity as to what to expect with everything. My dad had MS, so it was always a part of my life. Hugs to you all.
Just want you to know that we are thinking about you and praying for you. I have an aunt who has dealt with MS for the last 20 years, and, although it is certainly not something you want the doctor to tell you, there are so many amazing things they can do to manage it. We hope Rich will start feeling better soon. Hang in there!
Amanda and Blake
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Kaycee mentioned you were home "taking care of your husband" but I had no idea what was really going on. I know people with MS and you've got the right attitude - keep fighting and don't let it take over. Thanks for being so strong!
Misty, you guys are in our thoughts and prayers, and thank goodness for forever families. Goold luck and have a great holiday season. WE will be thinking and praying for you guys!
Misty, thanks for sharing this. You and Rich have so much love and so much support for each other, I will bet this trial will only strengthen that.
We would love to have the boys over anytime if you guys need to go to the doctor, or even for a good date night.
Love you.
Thank you for sharing! I am so sorry to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys during this time. Please keep us posted and let us know if there is anything we can do for you. You guys are so strong, I know you can fight this. May the Lord bless you during this trial.
wow, my mom told me about this when I went home for Christmas. Hopefully the treatments will help soon. my mom's MS has made our family stronger and closer. we will keep you guys in our prayers.
I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers.
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